However I dont even use transitting nodes at all I dont think they are relevant.
I wasn't much aware of them previously either. Often times nodal transits produce too little an impact to be relevant, however, upon further research I read about a book called "The Lunar Nodes" by George White.
AstroAmerica summarizes White's take on nodal transits as such: "He gives the secret to transiting nodes: The node must be near the planet's own node, or the planet near its own node. When they are, the transit has impact. There is also impact if, at the time of the transit, the planets are within one-half degree of parallel."
No wonder so many nodal transits go unnoticed! (Though I suspect he is referring to node/node transits, I have ordered the book as he probably broadens the topic to other nodal transits as well).