Parents' Chiron placements: Gemini (my environment in their woundedness)
Both involved siblings, death, shadow of their own identity, bullying fathers, have to prove themselves, anger, fighting, "with me or against me," tore at the marriage bond of their own and their parents (Juno), very poor communication, denial, suppression, hard to get at truth, don't cry, little reassurance, back-up, resolve it is up to them!
My own Gemini Moon daughter, I have learned, has needs that I had not been addressing. She is teaching me how to love her and our bond has grown.
Saturn, the teacher, Chiron, the teacher. She is graduating soon with a degree in Teaching. She taught me how to forgive my parents and reconcile, the importance of it.
Saturn, the teaching of the wound. I have to share very brief stories as to how Saturn comes around and makes things whole again.
Dad's wound: He shares a personal experience (shocked by his reveal and feelings). He wanted this car, real bad, growing up. Pushed and pushed for it. But, his Dad would not help him, worked him hard, even forcing him to quit school.
Well, at his confirmation, his Dad gives him this Bible, which my Dad proceeded to say, how nice, fitting...never opened it (my Dad believes in 'hands on' practical house raising spirituality). Many years later, he opens it, and out falls a key to a car. Chiron for sure. They didn't know that about eachother.
Mom's wound: Precognitive dreaming reveals to her that her brother has passed. He is at peace and gives her reassurance and his love. Many years later, the asteroids allay beautifully (P. Newman) and rebirth comes in the form of a great grandchild holding the spirit of a great many loyal and loving individuals that were part of the wound that nearly eclipsed her life.
Astrology: Both Chiron squares to Saturn. My father's Chiron conjunct Mercury-Juno; both shared in helping eachother with similar wounding. He was the strong one, for Mom's Saturn conjunct her Sun-Moon with many squares. She almost gave us seriously, two times.
Relevance to me: Dad's Saturn conjunct my Sun-Mercury Rx-Chiron, opp. Pluto-Node 'blanket over hand grenade" (Noel). Tr. Saturn conjunct his Neptune Rx, rules 9th, my greatest spiritual teacher. It will be hard to lose him.